EIGHT tips on getting your Man Crush Monday to like you and it’s not as hard as you think

Man Crush Monday. Well, it is a thing that started in 2009 in which, men shared stuff about men they admired, or even had a crush on.

Since then it has evolved into women expressing their attracting to men they prefer. And in the dark world of Twitter, it may feel like one of those long shot types of situations.

Well, it is really not as hard as you think, assuming they aren’t just attractive on Mondays.

Here are a few tips on how to achieve this:

1. Find out what your crush is passionate about: If you really want to know someone, find out about them. If it is something that is digital, check their interests. Then when you do talk to them, it is a place to start a conversation. find out what motivates them, to like vegans in marshall arts who paint on dolls.
2. Put yourself out there: Make the first contact and get into their eyeline. And they can’t read minds so don’t expect them to figure out on their own that there is a crush. Slide into their DMs and take a shot.
3. Take it offline as soon as possible: If the crush is from your online spaces, find a way to take it offline as quick as possible. Or at least get it off Twitter, to phone calls and even better, meeting each other.
4. Buy them coffee or tea: A Yale University study says, a person who holds a warm drink while they talk is more likely to be attracted to the person to whom they are having a conversation with.
5. Do you: So don’t try to change your personality to get their attention. People can see a phony from Gwanda from Uzumba. You want your crush to like you, not someone who is a version you made up.
6. Talk to your besties about them: When you crush on someone, it is hard to be objective so telling your friends creates perspective. That said, take some of that with a pinch of salt too because friends can be weird about it. Especially those who are conservative about crushing on someone you have never met.
7. Don’t talk about our old crushes: Guys know how to friend-zone too
8. Know your worth: Some dudes will see an approach from a girl as an opportunity for a free lay. No girl. Know your worth. If the man-crush was not as advertised, keep it moving.

All the best with your man crush. Hopefully, he isn’t married and all. That would be awkward unless you are into that sort fo thing. No judging.

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