8 signs he just wants sex

Relationships can be so awkward.

And even worse when people are not clear about what they want from the situation. Is it just sex? Is this long term? What exactly is going on?

Well, we have a couple of indicators that he just wants sex.

Here we go:

1. He really doesn’t ask deep questions about you

When someone sees you for just your body, they aren’t keen on knowing too much about you. They’re not going to ask you about your religious beliefs, or where you come from. He just gets by.

2. Never any plans with friends or family

This one is a careful one because he can hang out with his friends in your presence if you are the side-piece. But if you are just for sex, then he would rather not. And your friends or family? Never .

3. You met on Tinder

Well, some will say Tinder got them a super-lover but a lot of times, both people really want to hook up. Yeah, there is a reason why men never have ‘Strictly no hookups’ on their profile.

4. You tell him sex is off the table, but he talks about it

So you tell him that you want to be celibate. Or that you want to get to know him better. You are not suggesting there is no sex. He still brings it up.

5. When you talk about a relationship, he dodges it

So you want a proper relationship. Or just want to find out where you are going. He dodges it, either by kicking it down the road or pretending he didn’t hear it. Or says let’s talk it some other time.

6. He only ever calls you at night

Night is when the conversations become racy. And that is when the mood is there. And he only ever calls you when the owls are out.

7. He only wants to hang out when sex is on the table or at least option

This one is as self-explanatory as they come. If you want to go and hang out somewhere, he is not so keen unless he believes there is sex. Worse, he only ever wants to hang out at home.

8. He told you he didn’t want anything serious

You didn’t believe him. They say, believe what people say about themselves. They are probably right.

These are not all the signs but yeah, these are real red flags. For now share your ideas below and also on our social media platforms.

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