7 signs a man is lying about what he wants from you

So it is said that when you meet someone, you are getting in touch with their sales representative.

That means someone who tells you and presents their best version of themselves.

On the first date, and a couple after that, it is fine, but what about when it gets a bit confusing.

When something is amiss, and you need a roll call on signs that a man is lying about his intentions.

Here are seven signs:

1. What he says and does not match

He says he wants a long term relationship, but he behaves like it is a fling, or versa. He has pictures of his abs on his profile, the Tinder app is still on his phone while claiming he has left the streets behind. Hmmmm…

2. He uses non-committal words

He wants to make you believe that this is a thing, almost dangling a carrot, but is not definite. He wouldn’t mind a relationship, but he does not say he wants one. He is open to hainge children some day but doesn’t he wants to have children. It could mean he feels the need to say things expected of him.

3. Too many excuses

So you agree on goals and he has a brand new excuse every time they are not reached, that is a red flag. A screaming one. Sure we like to people the benefit of the doubt but wen it is habitual, run. Or have a chat.

4. He claims you are on the same page but makes says weird things about the plans

Maybe you say you want a long term relationship which results in marriage. He then at various points says that he hates marriage and doesn’t get why anyone would do it.

5. He tries to change your mind in subtle ways on important topics

This one is sneaky. There is a difference between, say changing your football team, to using death by a thousand cuts to change the way something fundamental relates to you. He may have agreed with you on a way to live, like say, not having a child. And then he tries bit by bit, and when it does not work out, temper tantrum.