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5 signs a guy could be playing you for a fool

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So as we usually say, dating is hard.

Not even like regular hard, like you know, getting your tooth taken out, but like times ten.

Life is messy. There are just something which are just all over the place, and one of those is when a guy keeps giving you signs, and you’re like, “What s gong on here?”

So what are the signs, we hear you ask?

So here we go.

1. He flirts with you, but he doesn’t ask you out

You have been talking for a while and he keeps hinting that there is something going on. And yet he never takes it to the next step. Maybe he says he enjoys seeing you, but nothing happens. Cut that situation up. He is playing you for a fool.

2. He says he has never been in love

Even if a guy has never been in love, he will never say that to someone who he is into. That is a not done thing. When a man says he has never been in love, the temptation is to see him as a ‘love project’, to try to get him to get there. No. This is a problem. Especially, when the man is over 40.He is playing for a fool.

3. Y’all texting, but he never has time to see him

The texting is a lot. He texts good morning messages, and is considerate even. Man, like this dude isn’t even forwarding messages. Or memes. He is conversational. But he just never has time to see you. Whatever he is using you for, we don’t know. He’s taking you for a fool.

4. He wants to ‘see where things go’

This one is interesting, especially for someone who just got out of a relationship. If he is still seeing where things go, it means that he is playing the field. And you are in the field. And he dangles the possibility of a relationship to lead you on. He’s playing you for a fool.

5. He brings ‘take away’, but never takes you out

He never gets seen you in public. Your ‘dates’ are always over at his or yours. And sometimes there isn’t even any Netflix. That is just a ‘booty call’. He can’t be seen with you in public because he is either married, or at least relationship. He’s playing you for a fool.

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