SIX signs you are being used in a relationship

Relationships are complicated and all that.

What is worse is the feeling that you are being used by someone in a relationship.

But there are small signs and sometimes big ones you can pick up, that can show that you are being used.

We go now:

1. She always wants you doing things for you: She even expects you to do things for you all the time. She will get mad the few times you don’t. Say you regularly pay for stuff and then the one time you can’t she gets insane.
2. She never spoils you back: You are always the one doing things for her and yet she never does anything for you. It is a one-sided relationship.
3. She does things quid pro quo: When she does something for you, it comes with strings attached. She essentially says, in order to get whatever you want from her, you have to do her a favour. Think of the early stage of the relationship between Bindy and the cop on Bad Mothers.
4. She doesn’t talk about you: She never mentions you to her friends and even when other men hit on her, she keeps her options open.
5. She won’t meet your friends: In a normal relationship, any girl would eventually want to meet your friends. She shows no interest in them and worse does not even want to know about them.
6. No sex: She stretches what she wants from you and teases the rewards but never sex. There is a difference between women who say no sex before marriage. This is the case of a woman who won’t hold your hand or even kiss you, after months together.

It’s harsh out there mate.

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